Perfect Valentines kisses

You may conquer with the sword, but you are conquered by a kiss."
— Daniel Heinsius (1580-1655)

 

We all know there is a right and a wrong way to kiss. But, what is it? There are so many variations. Indeed many of us prefers a different approach. Some people like it when their partner makes the first move. Others don't. Either way it would probably be best to start slow. Don't do anything awkward or forced.

What is the best thing to do right before a kiss?

Touch each other

Tickle each other

Talk to each other

Hug each other 

 

Unless you are in a fit of passion you might want to take the time to brush your teeth first. Oh, and take a shower. A few pheromones are a good thing, too many are a turn off. Poor hygiene is a total turn-off! When you are clean and fresh do get comfortable. If you are a guy you need to hold your girl firmly but gently. Move your face closer. Try not to bump her nose. Angle your face and gently kiss.  Although Eskimo kisses (noses rubs) can be a sweet opening move.  Butterfly kisses are also sweet;both giving and receiving. 

When kissing, do you like to keep your eyes open?

Sometimes

Always

Only when I have to wipe slobber off their face

Never

 

By all means, feel free to close your eyes. Closing your eyes increases the sensations you feel, and also sets the mood. 

 

After a while you can gently explore her mouth. Continue kissing gently; lips closed.  Don't deep-throat. No tonsil hockey yet. If all goes well tentatively, slowly and lightly draw your tongue across her lips. Chances are, if she parts her lips she is giving you the go ahead to slowly explore her tongue. Try a light licking motion. Obviously the tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is why it is essence of French kissing. After you've tried lightly licking her tongue you can try sucking on it, wrestling with it (see if you can hold it to the floor of her mouth ) and other things like that. 

 

There are two basic types of French kisses deep tongue and light tongue. Deep tongue invades the mouth and the throat; it is an act of sexual appeal and uncompromised strength. Light tongue is a brush of the tips of the tongue on the lips and inside the mouth. Once you have been kissing for awhile and you are in a nice “kissing groove,” go with the flow and just do what feels right.  As far as Frenching goes, keep in mind that it can be a hard kiss to master so you most likely won't be wonderful at it overnight but with practice and a patient partner, your skills will improve fairly quickly.

 

Wrap your arms around her body. Ten different girls (and guys) will like ten different things. Do not feel like you have to do something you don’t want to. 

Do you like to nibble on your partner's lips?

Occasionally

Yes

Only by accident

No, never

 

Nibble, but don't bite! Unless your partner is an aficionado of S&M you should avoid savaging them. You might get smacked and that could ruin the rest of your make out session And don't swing your tongue round and round like a demented weed whacker either. Explore lightly.

 

Breathe through your nose as you lightly use your hands to explore her waist, her back, her arms, the inside of her arm, her neck, maybe running your fingers through her / his hair. If you discover that she has hair extensions you might want to move to another area. Girls are very sensitive about those kind of things.  Kiss your sweetheart someplace unexpected or from right out of the blue. Oh, and continue kissing. 

 

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